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Common house rules checklist

The questions standard rules leave open. Agree on these before the first hand and most disputes never happen.

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Every group plays slightly differently, and that’s fine. Problems only start when people assume different rules. Go through this list once, write down your answers and share them with the invitation. The suggested default is what most home games do.

The game

QuestionSuggested default
Which game?No-limit Hold'em; dealer’s choice later in the night if everyone agrees
Buy-in size and blinds?100 big blinds per buy-in, e.g. 200 chips at 1/2
Rebuys?Allowed any time you’re at or below one buy-in
Maximum rebuys?No cap, but agree one if the group prefers
Latest time to join?Up to one hour after the start
End time?Fixed time, then one last orbit

At the table

QuestionSuggested default
Straddles?Under the gun only, 2× the big blind, no re-straddle
Bomb pots?Once per orbit, when the button reaches the host
Run it twice?Allowed if all players involved agree
Show one, show all?Yes — if you show a card to one player, everyone may see it
Rabbit hunting (dealing out the cards after a hand ends)?No — it slows the game
Can you add chips mid-hand?Never. Rebuys happen between hands
Time to act?Anyone may ask for a 1-minute clock after a long pause
Phones at the table?Fine between hands; not while you’re in a hand

Mistakes and disputes

SituationSuggested ruling
A card is exposed while dealing the hole cardsFirst or second card exposed: misdeal, deal again. Later: continue; the exposed card is replaced after the deal
Someone acts out of turnTheir action stands only if nothing changes before it’s their turn
String betCounts as a call
Chips don’t balance at the endRecount every stack before anyone leaves
Nobody agreesThe host decides, and the rule is added to this list for next time

Leaving and settling

  • Leaving early is fine — count your chips with another player and record them as left table in Poker Night.

  • Decide who settles: everyone pays each other directly (few transfers), or one person collects and pays out (Banker mode).

  • Shared costs — food, a tip, chip rental — are recorded as charges and split only among the people involved.

  • Agree when people square up: before they go home is best.

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